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The subtle art of never giving up.

Behind every success person who endeavoured more than one to reach his or her goal, is the means of “Never giving up “. If you believe in these three words, you can turn the unattainable to attainable. In my deliberation, this proclamation is proficient in changing the life of any person including me.

To begin with, not from foremost try all what you want to become is in your hand. You may fail more than one time to discover how to stand, just like a baby. I have a lot of dream that I yearn to become true, but words are zilch without deed.

Dreaming is not a sin.

Every one of us has dreams in our minds, but hardly few managed to get them executed in their first attempt. Dreaming is the sweetest thing ever, because we always tend to dream about the things we love and hope for to achieve. The finest way to accomplish your dreams and hopes is to struggle to attain them and make them a reality. Never giving up means that one should never lose hope and keep on trying. For many people, failure is nothing but the first attempt towards victory. This should be our exact approach in life. In existence, what matters is our outlook. If we resign easily, we cannot taste the zest of success. It takes years for a tree to give a scrumptious fruit. Similarly it will take time to make success, sometimes even years. The trail of success can be rough and hard, but if we keep going without any lack of confidence the day to success is not really far-flung.

“We cannot ever stop dreaming just as we cannot ever stop breathing.”

― Avijeet Das

 

Some people say that it’s too childish to dream, but from my perspective age really doesn’t matter as long as you have a purpose and meaning in your life through these dreams. For some, daydreaming is all what their life is about. As they say that breaking someone’s dream is like crushing their hearts.

Not give a thought about what people may say:

For all our lives, we bothered ourselves what people may think of us if we do this/that. That is where your wisdom and perspective perks up. One should never give a damn to what others may think. It is people’s job to gossip and to let you down. Never ever feel discouraged from that and don’t ever head to such nonsense. Do whatever you want to do, and it is only you who decides whether to it or not in the first place.

A lesson to today’s youth:

Many of us, when little, had enormous dreams. We do not allow circumstances to perimeter how far we dream. We feel passionate, ready to surmount the world.

However, as we grow a little older, and after drumming hindrances and failures, we begin to stop trusting in us, and lose our enthusiasm, reliance and objective. We reconcile into ordinary life, lumber on, and we either forget our dreams, or they become just fuzzy, incapable desires.

Youth facing disorders:

When adults or even teenagers feel like they are failing and are not getting even close to what they want in their lives, they tend to experience serious psychological tantrums. This is when youngsters feel anxiety and depression. The best possible solution is to talk them out of it, otherwise they began to lose their purpose and meaning in life. Losing the will to live is unfortunately very common. Giving up on your life is not the solution and our youth seriously needs to understand it. There is always, I mean literally always the solution to every problem, and surely suicide is NOT it.

People think that they have tried everything and the end goal is for them to die now. Whereas, life is all about struggling, how can you say that you have tried everything and still failed? Nothing in this life is impossible or unattainable. Each and everything is possible as long as you are still willing to try.

Stop surviving and start thriving:

You are born to thrive, not just to play it secure in your comfort zone.

You might try avoiding failure because it deteriorates your self-esteem — although failure is a condition for success. Ask any industrialist or adventurer, and they will tell you failure is crucial. Some people seem to be thriving under whatever circumstances they faced, while we speculate why we are wedged in our quandary. To thrive means to grow and flourish, not simply to scour by. The key to thriving is recognising you are miserable and willing to make changes, irrespective of the steps mixed up. There is mouldiness to surviving, in that you become worn out and restless. Your soul calls you to course into the mysterious where independence and good fortune lies.

“Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” 

— Maya Angelou

 

Ultimately, admitting defeat is just the character of the people who don’t believe in their self and aptitude. If they lost their confidence, they will lose everything. Giving up means that they don’t work hard to attain their targets.

To recapitulate, if you believe that you can fly then you will, don’t let the door of the hopelessness breaks your dream. Sometimes God close one door to open other, just be patient and don’t give up.

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The subtle art of never giving up.

Behind every success person who endeavoured more than one to reach his or her goal, is the means of “Never giving up “. If you believe in these three words, you can turn the unattainable to attainable. In my deliberation, this proclamation is proficient in changing the life of any person including me.

To begin with, not from foremost try all what you want to become is in your hand. You may fail more than one time to discover how to stand, just like a baby. I have a lot of dream that I yearn to become true, but words are zilch without deed.

Dreaming is not a sin.

Every one of us has dreams in our minds, but hardly few managed to get them executed in their first attempt. Dreaming is the sweetest thing ever, because we always tend to dream about the things we love and hope for to achieve. The finest way to accomplish your dreams and hopes is to struggle to attain them and make them a reality. Never giving up means that one should never lose hope and keep on trying. For many people, failure is nothing but the first attempt towards victory. This should be our exact approach in life. In existence, what matters is our outlook. If we resign easily, we cannot taste the zest of success. It takes years for a tree to give a scrumptious fruit. Similarly it will take time to make success, sometimes even years. The trail of success can be rough and hard, but if we keep going without any lack of confidence the day to success is not really far-flung.

“We cannot ever stop dreaming just as we cannot ever stop breathing.”

― Avijeet Das

 

Some people say that it’s too childish to dream, but from my perspective age really doesn’t matter as long as you have a purpose and meaning in your life through these dreams. For some, daydreaming is all what their life is about. As they say that breaking someone’s dream is like crushing their hearts.

Not give a thought about what people may say:

For all our lives, we bothered ourselves what people may think of us if we do this/that. That is where your wisdom and perspective perks up. One should never give a damn to what others may think. It is people’s job to gossip and to let you down. Never ever feel discouraged from that and don’t ever head to such nonsense. Do whatever you want to do, and it is only you who decides whether to it or not in the first place.

A lesson to today’s youth:

Many of us, when little, have enormous dreams. We do not allow circumstances to perimeter how far we dream. We feel passionate, ready to surmount the world.

However, as we grow a little older, and after drumming hindrances and failures, we begin to stop trusting in us, and lose our enthusiasm, reliance and objective. We reconcile into ordinary life, lumber on, and we either forget our dreams, or they become just fuzzy, incapable desires.

Youth facing disorders:

When adults or even teenagers feel like they are failing and are not getting even close to what they want in their lives, they tend to experience serious psychological tantrums. This is when youngsters feel anxiety and depression. The best possible solution is to talk them out of it, otherwise they began to lose their purpose and meaning in life. Losing the will to live is unfortunately very common. Giving up on your life is not the solution and our youth seriously needs to understand it. There is always, I mean literally always the solution to every problem, and surely suicide is NOT it.

People think that they have tried everything and the end goal is for them to die now. Whereas, life is all about struggling, how can you say that you have tried everything and still failed? Nothing in this life is impossible or unattainable. Each and everything is possible as long as you are still willing to try.

Stop surviving and start thriving:

You are born to thrive, not just to play it secure in your comfort zone.

You might try avoiding failure because it deteriorates your self-esteem — although failure is a condition for success. Ask any industrialist or adventurer, and they will tell you failure is crucial. Some people seem to be thriving under whatever circumstances they faced, while we speculate why we are wedged in our quandary. To thrive means to grow and flourish, not simply to scour by. The key to thriving is recognising you are miserable and willing to make changes, irrespective of the steps mixed up. There is mouldiness to surviving, in that you become worn out and restless. Your soul calls you to course into the mysterious where independence and good fortune lies.

“Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” 

— Maya Angelou

 

Ultimately, admitting defeat is just the character of the people who don’t believe in their self and aptitude. If they lost their confidence, they will lose everything. Giving up means that they don’t work hard to attain their targets.

To recapitulate, if you believe that you can fly then you will, don’t let the door of the hopelessness breaks your dream. Sometimes God close one door to open other, just be patient and don’t give up.

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How to succeed in life keeping moral and ethical values in mind.

Success in broad terms is an accomplishment, an achieved goal or your main aim. Success holds different meanings to different people. To most people it is more important to succeed in life than be happy by it. Some think that it means working toward your dreams.

meaning of success

Why is it important to succeed in life?

Regardless of how you define success be it financial, political, psychological, physical or emotional_ the most important thing to know that success is important. Success endows confidence, security and sagacity of well-being. Without success the entire civilization would cease to survive. Triumph should never be reduced to something and doesn’t matter or is not significant.

Struggle is the key
  • Struggle:

Success generally comes with struggle. If a struggle is not involved then the achievement is of no use. We’ve probably heard so many people saying that they’ve struggled so hard to achieve the particular goal. An individual must fight hard enough to accomplish his/her target otherwise he/she will cease to exist.

Cute sayings that somehow send home the importance of success abound to be like, “Success is a journey not a destination”. Well they are not exactly the truth. Ehen your future is threatened; these cute little sayings will prove to be poor substitutions for success. No matter what goals you are trying to achieve, success and struggle is crucial.

“Strength does not come from winning. Your struggles develop your strengths. When you go through hardships and decide not to surrender, that is strength.”

Arnold Schwarzenegger

What it feels like to be successful?

Living a successful life

There’s a certain, unexplainable feeling that comes with succeeding. Whether it’s passing the finish line in a race, getting an A on a paper/test, or even just impressing everyone at a talent show. The feeling is different for everyone, whether it’s a kind of euphoric feeling of butterflies in your stomach, or just smiling and not being able to express any other emotion than happiness. Everyone, at some point in their lives, has experienced success. There is something addictive about being successful. Take for example if you scored A grade in your class, then next year you’ll expect and want to achieve more than the previous year. Success has a drive for more. It’s something that you’ll crave more and more. If success is so much more difficult than just doing OK, why doesn’t everyone just do OK? The reason is because there is some innate, uncontrollable urge to impress others and also to further one’s own status among their peers.

There is a famous saying:

“Money can’t buy happiness”

Howard Hughes

Be happy

Well, I don’t think that happiness is something that can be bought. Happiness can lie in almost everything depending upon how you see things around yourself. It’s about seeing things from different perspective.

Can success and morality fits together in a same frame?

Always do the right thing

Morality means doing the right thing according to your moral and ethical standards. Being moral and ethical doesn’t mean that you can’t achieve success. But sometimes being too moral may also results in hindrance in your path. You’ll always have to be worried about should I do it or not, based on your moral values. God has given us that much strength and mind to think that what is right and what is wrong. If you think that such thing should be done, then do it. For some, life only gives you one chance, and you ought to do right by it. One wrong decision or mistake and you’ll ruin everything that you’ve worked so hard to build. Your reputation is your greatest asset. As you know from your own experience, when people talk about you in either positive or negative terms, and you find out about it, it has a major impact on your thinking and your emotions, either positive or negative.

To answer the question, Yes. Success and morality can fit together. They can go side by side, because your moral character is everything you have.

How to deal with issues regarding success?

Don’t let others define you

Every accomplishment brings out its own set of problems. People think that once they achieve their goals all of their problems will magically whoosh. In fact in reality once you stepped in your practical life, that’s when the issues began to appear. But one must not give up or feels discouraged by this. It is the part and parcel of life, and how you deal with problems is when your ability is being tested. Being in practical life needs a lot of tolerance and patience. You’ll have to face the issues very smartly.

  • Nothing is easy:

Every rising day will be a challenge and to face them is how you prove yourself.

Nothing comes easy in life

You cannot avoid them neither can you run away from them, because people will think it’s you who are at fault. To prove those scumbags wrong will show your ability and courage.

“Success is not final; failure is not fatal: It is the courage to continue          that counts.”

Winston. S. Churchill.

 People will tittle-tattle no matter even if you prove them wrong. If you are right, if you yourself knew that you’ve done the right thing then there must be no space for regret and guilt. Because nevertheless where ever you go in this world, issues like these will follow. These are the things that are made to hold you back from achieving your goals, from fulfilling your dreams. Know only one thing, that nothing is easy in this world, especially not success.

Stay positive

The truth is that problems are inevitable. They are good for us. They force us to stretch and grow.  

Success isn’t just important, it is vital, and should never be reduced to anything less than vital. It is valuable, crucial and necessary for survival.